Natasha Parfentyeva - "Remember when we discussed?"
Before the word "hysteria" has come in daily life and became a household name, it is more than one century led to some very interesting opinions of doctors. Thus, previously considered solely Women's "great hypocrite, hysteria is becoming more common male problem.
many centuries, most doctors believed tantrums only female feature, up to the manifestations of a simulation or the result of auto-suggestion. The notion of "hysteria" was introduced Hippocrates, who believed that there is women due to a long sexual abstinence (hysteria - from the Greek hysteron «uterus). In his view this, only the female body, could become moving and wandering through the body to put pressure on other organs, calling strange behavior. From the Middle Ages various mental diseases observed in women who had decided to unite under the term hysteria is still associated with dysfunction of female genital mutilation. Mental illness among men in those years of hysteria were not considered. And only in the middle of the XIX century French neurologist Jean-Martin Charcot rehabilitated hysteria as mental illness and concluded that its cause is a violation of the nervous system (the name of the doctor's well-known lovers of water treatments, because it is named in honor of the power shower - treatment of such methods were at that time very popular). When the hysteria ceased to communicate directly with the female reproductive system, and a man worthy of attention physicians.
WHAT THEY HAVE
If a man began yelling, pounding his fist, banging his head - does not mean that before you sick man. You can bring any (since we are then, women know it well) - just half a dozen times to ask for an urgent turn "right here," shrilly ask why he does not want cross two solid - after all there the same store, but for the final issue Crown: "You are always on my spit!" I have a friend with such a manner communication - why her husband had not yet strangled, still wondering ... And in fact, any court would have acquitted him! But this hysteria is a special character. At the beginning of dating, he is charming - talk to him inspiring ease and simplicity. You should not assume that a male hysteric in front of you will initially wailing and grunting. This neurosis can give energy, forcing to move forward and demonstrate willingness to change the world and throw it at your feet. He may be sensitive and gentle when you do this, it is easy to guess your wishes and you start to think that finally found a welcome supporter. Yes, hysteria is always an actor - a professional who can work well with the audience. Hysteria turns his life into theatrical stage, where the constant game the audience is the main task: to conquer, to show his brilliance and necessity, in certain situations - to charm and seduce. Such people often overly concerned about the sexual side of his life, turning the whole body in the erogenous zone. Sexuality hits the fountain, and you've fallen into this trap: such a passionate, sensual, not monotonous and jealous as the hero of the series.
BRIGHT COPY
level of expression of the neurosis can be different: Rare and minor manifestations, when a person directs the main stream of his abilities in bed for your relationship safe, for example, in the work. Tantrums succeed in politics, philanthropy, social movements and other sorts of work, where you can advocate for change. For demonstrations of their desired audience. A crowd of journalists and subordinates, as a dependent on their people. And then starts whipping up emotions cries, and other demonstrations "Kuz'kina mother." This is a calculated step, a calculated performance, distinctive advertising campaign. In everyday life, of course, such a absurd as a watermelon in her reticule (his ambitions too cumbersome for a cozy family nest). But if you got a frustrated leader, will play the role of the troops: to admire, to worry, perplex - that is to give the expected emotions. Tantrums can move mountains, so prosperous circumstances of their career going well. Hysteria, forcing always wanting more, not as bad as it sometimes seems. The other extreme: looks real macho. Sparkling vysheoboznachennoy sexuality, romantic and sentimental, understanding without words, and hurried to the aid of a chip and Dale rolled into one. He always plays the emotions to touch you to the core, and listens to all agree. At the beginning. Not yet understand that the victim caught. For you, relationships are complicated by unnoticed: the word partner at first interesting, then it begins to irritate his indifference to others, superficiality judgments of non-compliance and violation of personal boundaries - the kind of man does not feel when to stop. This tyrant, who, by his tantrums will ensure one thing - total control over you. Jealousy would be a nightmare, what to wear and make friends with anyone you will have to decide for him, and not to disobey God forbid! Этот актёр хочет полной власти над своим зрителем. В итоге его эгоизм и полная увлечённость собой вызовет непреодолимое желание прервать отношения, что и will be the only right decision. But to get rid society of such men is very difficult: it simply does not want to release from its elaborately organized Theatre as a convenient public. Of course, most of the male hysterics are something the average of the options considered by us, and you must decide how to deal with them and what conclusions do. But the main thing that we should not forget: the more hysteria around trying to please, the more he, instead of to rejoice, been frustrated. Women are more likely to sink into the problem of a partner, so if you're used to sympathize and empathize my man - learn to sympathize and empathize with itself. Learn how to be, at least sometimes, selfish, and it will allow you not to get lost with such a artist.
AND THAT THE DOCTOR WILL
well known to us by Sigmund Freud was one of the disciples of Jean-Martin Charcot and came to the conclusion that hysteria is a type of neurosis. Initially, he suggested that the reasons for this behavior may be caused by violence, lived through or nafantazirovannym in childhood. Later He expanded the range of root causes and come to the conclusion that the hysteria associated with the Oedipus complex. In support of this theory, we can assume that in our time, when the father's role in the family are all reduced, and the number of families where the mothers bring up children without the help of fathers increases - is seen a real confirmation have become so frequent tantrums in men. Not everyone can easily survive the oedipal phase of self-determination, so that many of us have a hysterical features. That's why a portrait of hysterical sometimes seems so familiar.
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